What it is
Two different things get called incontinence. Stress leaking happens when pressure rises: a cough, a sneeze, a laugh, a lift. Urge leaking is a bladder that contracts without asking.
Many women have both. The mix matters, because the treatments differ and treating one can worsen the other.
It is common. Being common does not make it something you have to live with.
What you might notice
- Leaking when you cough, sneeze, laugh or lift
- A sudden urge that gets you only part way to the bathroom
- Waking twice or more at night to urinate
- Going more often than every two hours during the day
- Leaking as soon as you hear your keys at the front door
- Wearing a pad daily as insurance
- Avoiding exercise, trampolines or long drives
- Dribbling that continues after you finish
How Dr. Mueller finds the cause
- 1
Bladder diary
You track fluids, trips and leaks for three days before the visit.
- 2
History and exam
Dr. Mueller checks pelvic support, muscle strength and the urethra.
- 3
Cough test
She looks for leaking with a cough while your bladder is full.
- 4
Urine test
A sample rules out infection and blood.
- 5
Post-void residual
An ultrasound measures what is left in the bladder after you go.
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Treatment plan
Pelvic floor therapy, bladder training, a pessary, medication or surgery.
Questions people ask
- Is surgery the only fix?
- No. Pelvic floor physical therapy and bladder training help many women. Surgery is for stress leaking that does not respond.
- Do Kegels actually work?
- They work when done correctly and consistently. Most women do them wrong at first, which is why supervised therapy beats a handout.
- Will it get worse if I wait?
- It often drifts worse slowly. Treating it earlier is easier than treating it late.
- Is leaking after childbirth normal?
- Common in the first months. Still leaking at a year is worth looking at.
- Do I have to give up coffee?
- Caffeine irritates an overactive bladder. Try two weeks without it before medication.
- Can I have incontinence and prolapse together?
- Often. Stress leaking and prolapse share the same support problem, and both can be repaired at one operation.